The Offer

An eight-week container

Eight weeks of structured, sustained attention on the things you've been managing alone, with someone in the room who's done this work & is still doing it. Not a course you watch once & forget.

One session a week. Approximately 90 minutes, over Zoom. & direct access to me in between.

What these eight weeks are built to change

By the end of the container, the measure is what you can do differently when it matters:

Stay in the room when conflict becomes intense. Tell the truth earlier & more cleanly. Feel more grounded & less performative during sex. Hold desire without rushing to discharge it. Access your strength without hardening, & your vulnerability without losing your center.

Who This Is For
Who This Is Not For
The Shape Of The Eight Weeks

The eight weeks move through four pillars,
two sessions devoted to each

One session to do the work cognitively & strategically. One to clear what sits underneath it somatically, via the Shadow EFT method, so the change holds in your body & not just in your understanding.

We build in this order:

I.

Capacity

Where you tighten, go offline, or just get good at looking fine while you brace underneath, & how to stay present instead.

II.

Sexual Mastery

Ejaculatory choice, performance, the patterns you've never examined out loud.

III.

Relational Confidence

Leading hard conversations, repair, holding steady when she isn't.

IV.

The Dark Masculine

The aggression & edge you were taught to keep small, & what becomes possible when you stop fearing them.

We close on the dark masculine on purpose. The container builds toward power, not away from it. By the time we get there, you've done the groundwork to hold it.

A man who can access his full power without fear of it is the one least likely to misuse it. That's what this work teaches: holding that power, not unleashing it on the people around you.

The Thread That Runs Underneath

Beginning in week one, we work directly with ejaculation, sexual energy, & choice.

You commit to an eight-week period without ejaculation. It's a deliberate practice, designed to reveal your relationship with impulse, desire, avoidance, discipline, & release.

When ejaculation is temporarily removed from the equation, the patterns underneath it become easier to see. You begin to notice when you use release to discharge discomfort, escape intensity, regulate emotion, seek reassurance, or bring an experience to a premature conclusion.

Whatever arises becomes material for the work.

The practice builds the capacity to remain with sexual energy: to hold it, move it through the body, & direct it with intention rather than reflexively releasing it.

Over time, this can create more choice around ejaculation, more creativity & presence during sex, & a deeper relationship with your own desire, discipline, & power.

The Practices

Each week you're given practices to do on your own. The embodiment work that builds capacity in the body & not just in the understanding. Breath, stance, energy, the physical skill of staying present.

You don't have to remember how. Most come as a short guided recording, video or audio, so you can do it right when I'm not in the room. They're how the practice travels with you between sessions.

You'll be given shadow work prompts to go through every week. These can be written, but I encourage clients to speak them into a private custom app that I've built which tracks & analyzes your answers over time. This provides invaluable insight & perspective into your progress as you move through the work.

What's Included

Everything in the container

Eight Weekly Sessions

Approximately 90 minutes, over Zoom.

Direct Access Between Sessions

Via WhatsApp, for the moment something comes up & you need to think it through before it calcifies into another thing you carry alone.

A Thorough Intake

Before we begin, separate from the eight sessions, so the first one starts from an accurate picture instead of small talk.

A Completion Session

After the eight weeks, separate from them the way the intake is. We look at where you started, where you are, & what holding this without me in the room every week actually looks like.

Recorded Practices

Short guided recordings, video or audio, for the embodiment work. How the practice travels with you between sessions, not just what happens on the call.

The Shadow Work App

Weekly prompts, spoken into a private app that tracks the pattern as it forms, not just the moment.

The Investment

Founding seats

I'm taking founding clients now, & the price climbs as the seats fill.

Clients 1–6
$2,500
Clients 7–12
$3,500
Clients 13–18
$5,000
Clients 19+
$6,000

A seat locks, & the price moves to the next tier, when payment clears.

The men who come in early pay the least, & the price never comes back down. If you're reading this now, you're early. That's worth something, & I'm pricing it that way.

For Your Partner

Here's what eight weeks of this looks like from her side: A man who stays in the conversation instead of leaving the room. Who can hear hard things without collapsing or swinging back. Who brings his full attention to conflict & to sex instead of a managed version of himself. More of you, available, at home. That's what the whole container is built around, including the sessions on anger & edge, the places most men have never been honest. The silence there costs both of you.

So if she's reading this over your shoulder: good. She should know what you're signing up for. She's welcome to ask what we're working on.
The right answer, always, is the true one.
What Clients Say

In their own words

How We Begin

You apply first. It's not a long form, but it's enough for me to understand what's actually going on before we talk. Most men feel something shift the moment they stop managing it in their head & start putting it into words.

Then we talk. The discovery call is 30–45 minutes. It's free, straightforward, & there's no pressure. We look at where you are, what isn't working, & whether this container is the right fit for you.

If it is, you reserve your spot, complete the full intake, & we begin.

If you're a successful man, & your intimate life has gone quiet in a way you can't fix the way you fix everything else, I want to talk to you.

Apply for a Discovery Call